Grammar, Grandma

it's grammar, grandma,
the ’that which“ of quiddities
carrying us through
the this and that
naming and describing
of the whatnot ideas, objects,
and who(m)soevers
how they tango together
squeezed into our abode
at this or any time
to come passing down
the generations
recipe for this here
meal tonight which I
must thank you for
whose deliciousness
I enjoy one bite
at a time in a place
not able to do other